Posts Tagged ‘Youth’

Why Cliff Changed His Name

Over several years in youth ministry, I’ve realized that students continually see me in a different way. I started as the Christian Jack Black; loaded with energy, donuts and an assortment of shenanigans. Then I was seen as the moral, advice-giving big brother to many of my students. Now I’ve given up [...]

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Land Mines and Guardrails

Land mines: I hadn’t been on the job a month when a man who just wanted to “help” approached me with a church directory. For the next 30 minutes he proceeded to point at countless pictures in the directory as he gave me all the dirt on my new church family. I was [...]

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Drunk Gummies and New “Shocking” Teen Trends

A common occurrence as a youth minister is the frequent church member who says ”Do you know teenagers are cutting or sexting or experimenting with erotic asphyxiation?” So here is an article of a new trend that I was unaware of, but doesn’t exactly shock me.

 

Introducing “drunk gummies.”

New trends [...]

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An Anonymous Letter from a Hurt Female Youth Minister

This letter was in response to an earlier post called Grateful for the Ravens. This is anonymous, yet it is all too familiar.

First, please know that I DO NOT do my job to receive ANYTHING. I count each day as a blessing and am so thankful to have a [...]

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Tough Questions We May Need to Ask

I absolutely love/hate tough questions. They are more fun to give than to receive. Jesus wasn’t afraid to use them.

Here are a few examples of questions that have the ability to peel back many layers on our leadership and the ministries we serve. About our leadership styles, intended for those we [...]

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Are Youth Ministers Lousy Givers?

Before I tackle the struggles of we, let me start with the struggles of me. As a pastor’s kid punk, I thought giving money to the church was ludicrous since I was sacrificing my dad to all the needy people in the church. This mindset carried over into my own ministry career [...]

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Getting Our Undergarments Compressed in a Manner Which Causes Discomfort as a Metaphor for Things That Frustrate Teenagers About The Church

Try this statement on for size, it is more fruitful to discuss the person of Jesus with a non-Christian than it is to discuss church or Christian living. Not sure about you, but I have found this to be true over and over again with teenagers. They often have the same sentiment as [...]

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